Innocent Looks

COOL! i just finished watching the movie "Nine"...the celebrities seem to make such a big deal about it so i decided to watch..its basically a story about a director whose supposed to make a script n start shooting within 10 days time, but the problem is he lost his inspiration and ideas...for this...he turns to his mother, wife, mistress and muses for inspiration. As the story goes along, u see tht this man is a really charming person and many ladies were in love w him...somehow he wantd them all, but he didn't want the troubles tht came w them..basically the movie said tht he was like a child..he only wants the fun parts, he didn't wan the responsibility.

There was a scene tht struck me..they showd how in the past, his wife fell in love w him, she was auditioning for a part in his movie, n he unties her hair, looks deeply in her eyes, n says "Thank u, for being as beautiful as u r"..something like this..n tht was how she fell in love w him..In the future, she went for a meeting w him n saw tht he did the exact same thing to another girl..the problem was, all along, she knew he was cheating on her, but she loved him still bcoz she thought maybe there was something special btween them, but when she saw tht, she realized tht all the amazing things he had said or done for her, were just his "crafty ways of getting what he want"

this struck a thought in me..i rmb once tht i heard this female friend of mine say "good looking guys hv black hearts" something like tht hahaa...i guess for a guy, hearing something like tht is pretty rare..for guys, we r warnd about how there r some women which will also use their looks to lure u into their traps..but i didn't know tht men did the same thing but in a different way..at tht time i roughly understood what they meant only, coz they say tht better looking guys like to charm girls into doing things for them..something like they promise their affection towards the girls, if the girls did something for them..n once the girl is out of use, then he would just dump her aside..

now tht i watch this movie, i guess in a way it makes more sense..this character, he charms his way to the ladies for them to b willing to give anything for him..however, he holds them bk..he seemd to only want the good side of them..he didn wanna accept all the troubles n problems tht came w them..okay i guess not so good example...

real life example, there was a company which someone i knew workd, my friend's boss was a woman, n she was rather unpleasant..however, she seemed nicer to guys, so one of my friend's senior, which happens to b a not bad looking guy, uses this to his advantage..i mean..previously..i didn't think ppl actually THINK of stuff like this..but apparently, if he senses tht she is gonna scold him, he puts on this dumb look..which manages to charm his way through, compared to the girls who get the harder scolding..

when i was younger, sometimes i wished tht there were ppl out there tht lookd good but didn't realize it haha i guess it was from watching too much movies tht we think tht there r good looking ppl out there w good kind hearts haha..but as i grow older now..what i see seems to b different..frm experience i realize tht good looks is power..n power usually corrupts...there are some ppl which use this charm thing intentionally..but there r ppl who do it unintentionally..i guess u cant blame them bcoz they grew up like tht, its them..plus they did something good in their past lives tht allow them to b blessed with better looks than others haha..so once again..nobody is at fault..

hmmm i seem to b doing tht alot lately..discussing n debating things but in the end nobody is at fault..but i guess thts the way the world is..nobody is perfectly innocent, yet nobody is totally guilty..i do know some very good looking ppl..i cant say tht im particularly close w any of them..bt from what i see frm the ppl i know..ppl r actually good inside..i guess its through growing up, meeting unfortunate events tht changes ppl to do things tht others may judge as "bad"..but u know..it may actually just b a mistake..n the person may actually deserve more compassion bcoz their unable to express their hurt feelings in a better way..in the end..this person may just hurt us once..but he/she is hurting themselves everyday of their lives..an angry person scolds us n hurts us probably for tht one time..but he/she is angry everyday not only at others but also himself at not being a better person..the anger just blinds him/her so much tht they just get so used to being angry at themselves tht they dont even realize tht their angry at themselves anymore haha

wow...so much talking haha!!..ahh well..i will keep tht in mind now...nobody is stupid..nobody doesn't know tht they look good..the fact tht i think someone looks good, means others also think of them that way...therefore, i cannot b tht knight tht uncovers a hidden beauty in someone based on looks..i can only b someone tht uncovers a hidden beauty from their hearts haha..im waiting till we all get old now..i truly wanna see what happen to those ppl w good looks..i wonder if they still get the same treatment as they do now when they lose their good looks? hmm...good show good show! waiting for tht to happen hahaha